Beartooth’s Caleb Shomo comes out as gay — and his wife’s raw response is heartbreaking
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Last updated: May 25, 2026
Fleur Shomo, wife of Beartooth frontman Caleb Shomo for 14 years, has shared her perspective following his public announcement of being gay. She expresses the personal difficulty and emotional toll of navigating this revelation while maintaining support for her husband.
- Fleur Shomo acknowledges the past few months as disorienting and hurtful, emphasizing her unwavering desire to love, protect, and support Caleb. She highlights the dual challenge of supporting him through his personal journey while facing her own sense of loss and confusion.
- She reflects on the nearly 14 years of their marriage as wonderful and filled with love, adventure, and fun, stating that no one can truly know the depth of their bond except themselves. Shomo notes the profound isolation of not being able to openly discuss the situation due to its personal nature, which has impacted her mental health.
- Caleb Shomo, in his statement, confirmed his identity as a "proudly gay man" and his ongoing process of self-discovery. He mentioned years of suppressing these feelings and using alcohol to cope, with sobriety leading to a reconciliation with his sexuality and a path towards self-love.
- Shomo also discussed his artistic journey with Beartooth, explaining how his past music explored themes of depression and self-hatred, stemming from his upbringing. He intends to express himself wholeheartedly and honestly in his future work, prioritizing personal happiness and authenticity.
- Beartooth, formed in 2012, is set to release their sixth album, "The Heartbreak of Scars," in August.
