The Ending He Could Have Written Himself
Daily Kos
Last updated: May 3, 2026
The author recounts receiving a call from their father in mid-2003, informing them of his terminal bladder and lung cancer diagnoses. His lifelong habits of heavy smoking and drinking are mentioned as contributing factors to his health decline.
- The father, a recognized author of children's and young adult literature, was living in California when he delivered the news. The diagnosis of bladder and lung cancer marked a critical turning point, leading to discussions about his remaining time. His history of extensive smoking and drinking, spanning many years, was directly linked to his severe health issues. The conversation initiated a period of reflection on mortality and family relationships in the face of terminal illness. The author's father's professional background as an author adds a layer to the narrative, highlighting the contrast between his creative life and his personal battle with cancer. The specific types of cancer, bladder and lung, underscore the severity of his condition. This personal account delves into the emotional and practical aspects of a parent's end-of-life situation.